Create a Code for Yourself, and a Mission
Every man needs to draw a line in the sand and determine what he will and will not accept from other people. You have to have a code, a level of respectable treatment that you can hold firm to. You start with a firm stance, and then you can soften the boundaries as you go.
On the other hand, if you start with a weak or flaccid stance, you’re never taken seriously when you try to take a stand later on, and you end up taking a lot more crap from people over the duration.
Establish your code of behavior, and hold people up to it. Most people are too afraid of rejection to call their “friends” on the carpet for mistreating them. Once you can establish what you want from the men and women in your life, you will have a barometer that keeps you from falling into martyrdom for your relationships.
When a woman mistreats you, you let her know that this is unacceptable, and she either cleans up that behavior or she hits the road. She will respect you, no matter what she says or does.
Your mission is what your life is about. Think about the great leaders on the planet and what they set out to do. They never had a problem with women because these men were creating a life worth becoming a part of, and that attracts all people.
Sit down sometime and take a long look at what you’re life means to you, and what you want to accomplish. You don’t have to lead a revolution or comfort lepers to make the difference you want to make. Sometimes it’s as simple as creating a family, or leaving behind a legacy of abuse. Whatever it is, though, is up to you to determine.
Women can detect a man with a purpose, and it’s the most powerful of aphrodisiacs.
Show her you’ve got a mission, and you’ll find that women aren’t really a problem anymore.
Dream no small dreams, for they have no power to move men.
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